My sister replied to my e-mails regarding the ultimatum I gave her, to choose pot or to quit so she can be in my wedding..
her response was rather vague, although it seems to hint toward "I choose my drugs"...
I've intentionally left her name off the reply.
even if i do decide to quit smoking pot, i really
don't want to move to prescott, regaurdless of it
being with mom and dad or not. and so if i'm not going
to be moving with mom and dad how would you be getting
a hold of me to go to your wedding. i still don't
really know what i'll be doing. i kinda figured i
didn't want to go on, still debating on that. i don't
feel i have a life ahead for myself. maybe i'll figure
something out, maybe i won't. who knows. anyways,
congratulations on your big day. hope all is well for
you.
To me that seems like a "no", but I've written her back asking for clarification. I was over at my parents yesterday helping with some packing and told her that there are ways to keep in touch that don't involve a mailing address (i.e. e-mail,
phone, etc.), if she was really interested in being a part of my wedding. She just kind of shrugged and said "I know".
As for her comment about not feeling she has a life ahead of her, I said in my reply that I can relate to that feeling, I felt the same way just out of high school. I asked her not to give up on herself, she'll find some direction at some point.
I said at the end of my reply that if she choses to continue with pot that is fine, as long as she comprehends how sad it is that she is chosing drugs over her family.
But then, isn't that what drugs do to people, anyway? I hope she'll get help at some point, before it is too late.
That's all, folks...
